I’ve been reading tarot cards to people for six years (intermittently), and I’ve given countless sessions, anything from love tarot readings to Messages from the Universe and Card of the Day.
There are certain number of people and sessions I remember where I found it very difficult and draining to read and interpret. The difficulties appeared to be coming from the person, who I sensed has built or was trying to build an invisible, impenetrable wall. No matter how much I tried to look at the usual spots to synthesize the cards’ meanings, I found myself struggling to find the right words and meanings.
These sessions were also especially difficult for me because I felt that I was being unfair to the person. I somehow felt discontented because I wasn’t able to give them the full realization of the cards’ messages. I felt uncomfortable, overall.
On the other side, certain people appeared to have surrounded themselves with some sort of wall, which made it difficult for me to see right through them and make a connection between them and the cards. It could be because some things. They were probably protecting themselves from what they perceived as threats, preventing certain elements and memories from the past from surfacing again, feeling uncomfortable during the session so much that they were not really into it, or at least one of us were finding it difficult establish an emotional connection.
This struggle does not happen often, but is something I still need to iron out. Do you generally find it easy to connect to people, or it usually takes some effort on your part?